“Her fetish is being a bitch.”

Today I left my loving family to go to work.  It was so god awful that I left before midnight (!).  I promised I would be a good boy this week.  No canoodling with Rihanna for this boy (this week).  But I had a ride downtown and I could visit my sweetheart at work.

The difficult part was that I had one me a series of antiques that we had bought at my Mom’s house that weekend.  We found a store, half a block from my the Dalai Mama’s new place upstate.

The whole family agrees that this is the nicest house we’ve ever lived in.  It was built in 1872 and has four bedrooms (not including the unfinished servants’ quarters).  All brick and wonderful.  It’s owned by the church, so those pedestrian concerns about heating bills and repointing the brick work are nonexistent.  Furthermore, my own Dad was out of work at the time that she got that job.  My dad—first guy in last guy out ever since he got a paper route—was now learning about craigslist and monster.com.

For my entire life my parents have been the hardest working people I know.  Dad worked 8-8.  Mom woke up before anyone and worked from home.  She got two graduate degrees after finishing her undergrad at community college.

On my first day at the Hartford Courant I got an assignment and worked the phones.  I made a spread sheet and called in favors as an eighteen-year-old journalist for the most respected paper in the highest earning per-capita state in the nation, two doors from the capital.  I remember on my first day on the job in the newsroom I came back to my parents house in my ’89 Corolla.  “How was work today, honey?”

“I came half an hour early and I was the last guy out the door in the Features Department.”

“Ah’right!!” Dad pumped his fist in a way I’d only seen when George Tate sunk a full-court hail-mary for UConn in second grade.  (I actually wrote a song about that moment in college basketball history and I can only assume that Interscope will keep it a secret.  The refrain was “…That’s when I first said out loud/”Someday I’ll make Dad that proud.”)

Andrea works one night a week at the club that used to be called Life on Bleecker and Thompson.  Its name translates from French as “the little red fish.”  But you’d have to be illiterate not to get the joke.*

So I went to visit her, which was a very difficult act.  I came straight from Grand Central to get to work on time.  This included (full post about this to follow) carrying my new, eighty-pound oak, velvet-lined case that holds my new 140-piece silver set from Singapore.

Mom now lives in Orange County, NY (you ever seen the motorcycle show Orange County Choppers?)  Mom is down with OCC.

This morning I woke up to the realization that I had fallen asleep on an air mattress and woken up on a sheet of deflated plastic.  It was awful.  Only because it was partially inflated.  My ungrateful sonofabitch mentality got the best of me.  Mother laid out a bottom sheet, top sheet, pillow shams, and a blanket.  But when we got back from Sweeney’s I found a fully dressed girl passed out on a half-inflated air mattress.

You have those moments when you’re a boy from a proper New England family where you’re like, “Really, Ma?  That was your plan?  You have us up for Dad’s birthday/Fathers’ Day and think that our drunk-asses are going to master the air mattress and put shams on the decorative pillows?”  I didn’t wake up Andrea because I knew that the only way one of us would have a goodnight’s sleep is if she stayed passed out and warm.  I threw blankets over her at 2AM.

At 6:30 I awoke.  Either that or I gave up.  The worthless, shamless, pillows were no help.  My head was supported by the remaining air.  My feet were lofted.  The small of my back was seated on the original oak floors.

Thank god I love adventures.

So me, my new deer-hoof gun rack, my 140-pieceflatware set, Andrea’s three decanters, art deco mirror, two lamps and three dresses had to get our way back to New York. 

After work I went by her party (which she does kind of as a favor for a friend).  There were girls whipping guys.  There’s a guy known as “The Human Carpet” who basically wears a black body bag and lays on the floor hoping you’ll step on him.  If you do step on him other men will ask you to step on them.

The thing about a fetish party is that you can’t possibly be offensive enough.  Off in the corner is some guy in an Abu Graib mask getting whipped, shirtless.  Meanwhile, my friend Amber is GOGO dancing and her boyfriend is sitting there waiting for her to be done.  It was cute for a while because all the boys had that feeling of waiting on the couch together beside the shoes department in a women’s department store.  If we had anything to say it would’ve been:  “Women, huh?!?”

Tessa and Katie were there when I got there (I put the flatware set on the bar and showed everyone all three levels. It’s awesome.)

Someone asked them to step on him.  Meanwhile there’s a fifty-eight-year-old man with a 19 (?) year-old Asian girl’s foot ankle-deep in his mouth (it’s been 45-minutes in the making).

Around the corner is another girl who is wearing kid-pajamas and doing unhygienic things with teddy bears.  Another girl matches her.  There’s a guy at the throne by the bathroom who wants you to ask him, “Anybody in there?”  So he can say, “No, you wanna change that…?”

These are the hot topic kids from high school.  It’s a $15 cover to get in (AKA $2.75 more than a movie in this neighborhood).

My friends are all, by request, stepping on a guy who got down on his knees and begged them to stand on his chest.  What’s really crazy is that theses guys are ready for a variety of mishaps.  They’ve been there before.  They all get down on the ground on top of a sweatshirt and put a knit cap or bandana over their hair (you can imagine that the floors here are 1% grosser than any other club).  Their knees go up and their feet are A^2 to the B^2 of their Femurs.  They hug their faces with biceps and elbows.  This is all to prevent you from stepping on their balls or noses.  Which is exactly what you’d love to do when you’re doing someone a favor by stepping on them.

Amber’s fiancé, Matt, is there.  Matt is a huge fan of Mercutio because Matt was doing graduate-level research on stage-fighting and how to do it safely and effectively when he decided that ten people would care about that.

We all went out for a smoke and at the ticket window (as if this is a fucken Indie-movie snob house) there was a woman sitting there.  She was clearly a dork in high school, then she got weird.  Then she got old.  Bitch musta been 45.  “Can I get a stamp.”

“Are you on the list?”

“No, but I want to smoke five feet from here and I want to get back in here.”

“If you’re not on the list and you didn’t pay: you can’t get back in.”

Now, I paid about half that to see The Hold Steady last week.  Is going to a weird party really half as uplifting as “Separation Summer?”  No.

We got back in by going to a five-piece-band-plus-DJ thing in the main room.  It was sad because I’ve always thought, “You can do anything you want with a DJ in the band.”  But it turns out that instead you have four guys standing around while one  (who can sing pretty well) also stands around the others look like a-holes.

I walked out onto the streets of Greenwich Village and said, “I wonder what that guy’s fetish is?”

Turns out he’s just a crazy guy with tubes up his nose.

There were schoolgirls, boys in leiderhosen, old guys who wanted feet in their mouths, Matt who just got a job at Manhattan Ministorage, and then a small herd of boys who want you to kick them in the balls or massage your feet.  Luck of the drawwwwwww.

The other thing about a fetish part is—maybe you want the non-weird version of what they offer.  Foot rub?  Walk on your back?  Hard day?  I’ve never come home from work and said, “God I wish I could whip someone/something now.”  But I’m a hardworking Irishman.  I can get a free whiskey that came with a small (Asian) walking on my back and rubbing my feet? 

So we’re on our way to say goodnight to Katie and I go to take her into a cab.  The bitch at the main door get won’t stamp my hand because she knows I didn’t pay to get in.  “I’m with the bartender.”

The bitch looks like Jeaneane from Ghostbusters.  Tart face, red lipstick, only she also dies her hair nutrasweet blonde. 

“Ugh,” I said on my way out.  “That girl’s fetish is ‘Being a bitch.”

*The Red Herring.  The ruse.